Karol Sanchez is the type of daughters whom force DFS removals.
In the course of a week, she has been kidnapped, found out, returned to her family–and made the whole damn thing up.
SHE MADE THE WHOLE DAMN THING UP.
I have associates on social media caping for this girl! They are saying how we should have sympathy, empathy and reserve judgement. Those of us whom were once silly (horny) 16-year-old girl, can most definitely have several opinions about this here! The one thing that I cannot stand is in a social climate which is cannibalistic towards women–Black women are a consistent delicacy! Why would you stage a kidnapping–a felony!–over a dude?!
This is further confirmation that I am getting old. That the vantage point of 38 allows me to see crazy for what it is! This is crazy. This is not just crazy, it is crazy as HAYLE!
From reports, she did this because her mother was going back to Honduras. And she didn’t want to go. She wanted to stay with Stealaway Bae! She staged a kidnapping the in age of Black girls winding up dead in hotel freezers, getting snatched from parking lots, raped and not believed on college campuses–and you stage a caper over peen!
As a mother, it took me about a week (literally until just now!) to calm down enough to articulate just how mad I am.
As a mother of Black daughters, raising them as sentient and beautiful and bold, it took me days to cool down enough to articulate why I am so mad.
I am so mad at her because being the mother of a Black daughter requires a superpower. It requires you understanding the world you live in, the world you have to negotiate and the world that you leave them. You have to equip them to be who they are, overcome the thoughts of other people, and negotiate any obstacle that comes to you!
The police have opted not to press charges (which seems sketchy to say the least), but there needs to be some type of punishment for her! Why? If she is old enough to throw it in a circle, she has to be able to understand what she did was beyond a stunt! She has the entire country looking for her, and she was bae-d up–this was a whole tantrum! Do not ask me to overlook these antics because of her age!
She needs to be held accountable. Karol Sanchez went too far with this shit. This here was too far, and she crashed. I do not approve of the death threats for this child–she is still a child. That energy is not appropriate. What needs to be examined is why she felt she had to do that; what was going on with her family dynamic that she needed to plot this; what is the reason this was the only option?
This story is more complex than the media would have you believe, Torches. I have been a 16-year-old girl, and now a mother of teenager next year: nothing is done without logic, regardless of how convoluted! As a mother, I know how panic-stricken she was; how helpless she felt. I can imagine–feel–the rage that came with knowing your child tricked you! The feeling of helplessness which metamorphosed into a rage so deep you could birth it, raise it as Hell does its demons!
I can understand. I can overstand.
My heart breaks for Karol, her mother and her entire family. I don’t have a quip to deal with this one, loves. I have the keen insight of a parent. I want her healthy, happy and safe. This way, when her mother slaps the stank off her she knows why.