Those of you whom may not be aware, you girl is single again. Being single before COVID had its own set of challenges, and disappointments–but this?! Oh?! Let me tell … Continue reading Things Scarier Than COVID…Trying To Date In A Flipping Pandemic!
There is a rage that comes when you realize that your time has been wasted. There is this sadness that comes when you realize someone that you love has wasted … Continue reading In Love’s Ashes & The Going Forward
This piece is written in heteronormative terms. As with the previous piece, I do not want to disavow any experience my Firestarters whom may be a part of the LGBTQIA community. … Continue reading Being The Glue: The Promise Of Better Shouldn’t Cost Her Everything
August is Activism month here on The Ideal Firestarter and I want to take this time to reach out to big women that are afraid to go out in public on their … Continue reading Not Pretty For A Big Girl, Pretty Period: Advocating Body Positivity In a Size 0 World
Fuckboy. Noun. A boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for “pics” once the girl … Continue reading May Book Review: DATING BIBLICAL FUCKBOYS
Anyone that knows anything about Jenn Harris will tell you, I am a huge fan of classic film noir. I am a fan, of old Hollywood. I am a FAN, … Continue reading The Switch Out-Part I